Tag: Personal Development

  • How I Stay Fit Driving a Truck Ten Hours a Day

    By Bogdan — RoadToForge


    I spend most of my working day sitting behind a steering wheel. Ten hour shifts. Long stretches of motorway. Not exactly a gym environment.

    But I have found a way to stay reasonably fit without extreme diets or exhausting routines. And it is simpler than most fitness advice you will read online.


    I used to be genuinely fit.

    When I was boxing competitively I was training around six times a week. I was shredded. Competition fit. That kind of dedication takes time and energy that my life now — three kids, long shifts, and building a content creation project on the side — simply does not allow for anymore.

    So I had to find a different approach. Not compete with my past self. Just stay healthy with the time and energy I actually have.


    The diet change that made the biggest difference.

    I used to snack constantly. Throughout the day. Late at night after getting home from a late shift. Midnight snacks were normal for me. I was always munching on something.

    Then I came across a video that made me think differently about it. I stopped snacking almost completely. Three proper meals a day. Nothing in between except maybe a coffee or a tea. If I really feel like munching on something during a long shift I chew gum instead. It sounds simple but it genuinely helps. If I do have a snack occasionally I keep it to fruit — a banana, an apple, some grapes. Something natural rather than processed.

    And crucially — once dinner is done that is it. No matter what time I get home. Dinner finished. Then only water. Nothing else until morning.

    The effect was noticeable within weeks. The weight around my belly started dropping just from that one change alone. No extreme diet. No cutting out food groups. Just stopping the constant snacking.

    The thing about sugar and snacking is that it genuinely behaves like a drug. The more you eat it the more you want it. But once you cut it out consistently your body adjusts. After a while you simply stop thinking about it. If someone offers you chocolate you genuinely do not want it. The craving just disappears completely. You do not even notice it is gone.


    The workouts are short and consistent.

    Fifteen to twenty minutes maximum. Three times a week. That is it.

    I always start with a minute or two of shadow boxing to warm up. Then sprints — I start with five and add one or two more each session. Walk back between each one. Never exhausting myself. Just building slowly over time.

    After the sprints I come back next to the cab where I do the rest of my workout. Each session I pick two exercises from my rotation — push ups, bicep curls, tricep exercises, walking lunges, or calf raises. I cover most of the main muscle groups across the week. Three sets of each exercise. That is it.

    The walking lunges are a good example of how I approach everything. I walk continuously from one end of the truck park to the other and back — counting as I go. First session maybe forty or fifty. Next time sixty. Then seventy. Building slowly until I reach around a hundred. No rushing. No forcing it.

    I keep a dumbbell with discs in the cab for the arm work. Nothing fancy. Just enough to get the job done.

    After every session I do a short stretch. Just a few minutes to cool down and keep the muscles loose. Worth doing every time.

    It looks nothing like a gym session. But done consistently three times a week it is enough to stay in good shape.


    The key is not burning out.

    I am forty years old. I am not training for a competition anymore. I am not trying to impress anyone. I just want to feel good and stay healthy for my family.

    Short workouts done consistently beat long workouts done occasionally every time. Three times a week for twenty minutes is one hour of exercise per week. That is genuinely enough when your diet is under control.

    Work smarter not harder. It applies to fitness too.

    — Bogdan



  • Two Months Is a Newborn Baby


    By Bogdan — RoadToForge


    There is something I have noticed about the way people approach new things.

    They start. They work hard for a few weeks. And then — when the results do not come immediately — they stop. They tell themselves it is not working. That they are not cut out for it. That maybe it was a bad idea after all.

    What they do not realise is that two months in — you are a newborn baby.


    Think about your job for a moment.

    When you started any job you have ever had — did you walk in on day one expecting to be exceptional? Did you give yourself two months and then quit because you were not yet the best person in the building?

    Of course not.

    You went there to learn. To earn. To grow slowly over time. You gave it years without even thinking about it. You showed up every day and you got better gradually without putting a deadline on it.

    But when we start something creative — a YouTube channel, a business, a new skill — suddenly we expect results in weeks. One month in and we are checking the numbers obsessively. Two months in and we are questioning everything. Three months in and if we have not seen dramatic results we are already thinking about giving up.

    Why do we do that?

    We would never quit a job after two months because we were not yet the best employee. But we quit creative projects constantly for exactly that reason.


    The gym is a perfect example.

    Two months of training and you feel better. You are sleeping better. Your energy is higher. But you look in the mirror and the dramatic change is not yet visible. Most people stop at exactly this point.

    But the people who stay — one year, two years, three years — they become unrecognisable from where they started. Not because they had special talent. Because they refused to quit before the results had time to arrive.


    The milestones.

    I think about progress in milestones. Real ones. Honest ones. Not the ones social media would have you believe in.

    The two month milestone — you are a newborn baby. You can barely lift your head. Everything is new and overwhelming. Results? None visible yet. But the foundation is being laid whether you can see it or not. Nobody looks at a two month old baby and says — why is it not walking yet? Why is it not talking? This is clearly not working. And yet we say exactly that about everything else we start.

    The six month milestone — the first real step. You are starting to sit up. Starting to recognise what works and what does not. The first signs that something is genuinely developing. This is the first big hurdle. Most people never reach it. The ones who do start to feel something shift.

    The one year milestone — first steps. Wobbly. Uncertain. But moving forward independently now. You have made enough mistakes to start avoiding the obvious ones. You can feel yourself improving even when the numbers do not yet show it.

    The two year milestone — running. Not perfectly. Still falling sometimes. But genuinely moving with confidence now. Real visible improvement. People who knew you at the start can see the difference clearly.

    The three year milestone — this is where it becomes real. This is where the gap opens permanently between you and everyone who quit at month two. You are talking in full sentences now. Communicating clearly. People can see who you are becoming.


    Every single thing I have ever learned in my life has followed this exact pattern.

    When I started boxing I barely knew how to hold my hands up for the first few months. Raw. Awkward. Getting it wrong constantly. Even at the six month milestone I was still a baby. I had just barely started to grasp the basics. A very raw understanding of how things worked. Nothing more.

    Judo was the same.

    And truck driving. I have been a truck driver for eleven years now. Eleven years. But I remember clearly what the six month milestone felt like. Driving a large truck through Central London. Tight streets. Busy junctions. Heart racing. Genuinely nervous. Still making mistakes. Still shaky in difficult situations.

    Now I drive through Central London without even thinking about it. The decisions happen automatically. The instincts are built in. What once felt impossible now feels completely natural.

    But it took eleven years to get here. And at two months I was a complete newborn.

    In trucking most companies require three years of experience before they trust you with their vehicles. Not six months. Not one year. Three years. Because they know that under three years you are still making expensive mistakes. Insurance costs more for drivers under three years for exactly this reason.

    After the three year milestone something fundamental changes. The experience is in your hands. In your instincts. In how you read situations before they become problems.


    I am building a children’s educational cartoon channel right now.

    I started a few months ago with no experience. No technical background. No team. Just a phone and a determination not to watch another opportunity pass me by.

    I am around two months in now.

    And already — even as I write this — my brain plays tricks on me some days. Maybe this is pointless. Maybe I am wasting my time. I am improving but I am not seeing the results I hoped for yet.

    And I catch myself doing what most people do at this stage — blaming outside things. The algorithm. The platform. The timing. Anything external. When the honest truth is simply that I have not been in the game long enough yet. I have not put in enough time. I am still a newborn.

    So let me be honest with you. As much as I am writing this for you — I am writing it for myself.

    We all go through this. Every single person who has ever started something new has had those days where the brain whispers that it might be pointless. That the results should have come by now.

    They should not have come by now. It has been around two months. You are still a newborn.

    My first episode was rough. Really rough. But I posted it anyway. And I kept going. The gap between episode one and episode eleven is already significant. And I am still only at the two month milestone. If the quality has improved this much in two months — just imagine what three years looks like.

    Something is starting to click.


    If you are at the two month milestone of something new — something you genuinely believe in — stay.

    Think about it honestly. You would not quit a job after two months. You would not leave the gym after six weeks because the mirror has not changed yet.

    So why are you expecting this to be different?

    Reach the six month milestone first. Then aim for one year. Then two. Then three.

    The people who reach the three year milestone are simply the ones who refused to quit at two months.

    Nobody becomes exceptional quickly. They just stay longer than everyone else.

    Two months is a newborn baby.

    Give it time.

    — Bogdan